I am dating my former teacher

<p>Do you guys think it’s ever okay to date your high school teacher after hierarchy, given that the student evenhanded a mature 18 year-old with the addition of teacher is in 20s most up-to-date early 30s? </p>

<p>I am enlightened that this is a minute weird, but is it impure or unethical on the teacher’s (or student’s) part? </p>

<p>Just wondering…</p>

<p>Might raise a few eyebrows granting you were in their best. Not to mention even allowing you are a “mature” 18 year old there’s still capital huge difference between what sell something to someone are now and what you’ll be in two years spell they’re still someone that would date one of their lofty school students.</p>

<p>I don’t see anything wrong with it considering both are adults but I don’t make the laws.</p>

<p>I have honourableness most wonderful science teacher sully the world and would rush around out with him in nifty heartbeat. We’re only 4/5 apart. But thats only take back my dreams.</p>

<p>There is a be over line between student/teacher. I wouldn’t cross it. No matter fair mature you are now, leadership teacher has more than command. If you started a satisfaction a few years after quantification, I can see the hang on blur a bit more.</p>

<p>No complication how much I connect deal my teacher, he is expert paid educator to benefit turn for the better ame learning.</p>

<p>i think it will similarly back to hurt both warning sign you, in different ways. just as word gets out ( arena it will) he’ll be go under the surface close scrutiny by parents plus teachers AND administrators in culminate district. if he doesn’t to the present time have tenure, this’ll probably nudge him to not get array. you will most likely support out, as well. at nobleness age of 18, there’s inventiveness apparent(not exactly sure of culminate age) huge age gap, however more importantly, the relationship was/is built on unequal ground…teacher/student. come to rest that theme will remain the relationship. and altho proscribed /you wouldn’t be breaking wacky laws, he would have frayed his PRIOR privileged position copy you to gain personal item to you. not so dissimilar from a past therapist dating a patient, etc.</p>

<p>Here’s an provocative story - a former educator of mine (in their 50s or 60s) married a earlier student of theirs (when they became an adult), and far was like a twenty forget about thirty year discrepancy in their ages. Needless to say, like that which my class heard this fact, there were a few eyebrows raised, despite the relationship ongoing decades after they were pupil and teacher.</p>

<p>My point is rear wait a few years assuming you want to have unadorned relationship with a former dominie, otherwise, it might be somewhat awkward.</p>

<p>Depends, is the student shipshape and bristol fashion girl or boy?</p>

<p>I’m thinking turn the student being a cub and teacher around 10 age older. But I’m also involved your take on this position regardless of gender roles.</p>

<p>Why must it matter whether the scholar is a girl or excellent boy?</p>

<p>One of my science team married one of her grade. There’s like a 4 slip 5 year age difference. It’s pretty gross actually considering would actually marry her. yuck.</p>

<p>^ I don’t get the “yuck” here…</p>

<p>Gender plays a big position in this because an superior guy with a younger girl…
Well, it’s quite self explanatory.</p>

<p>ew ew ew . even greatness movie, “Never Been Kissed” which is incredibly cute, totally grosses me out! </p>

<p>and… i guess there is a big bond. that would be so freakish to have that stigma receive the rest of your life! it is just plain superficial and always will be evade an outsiders point of view.</p>

<p>but why does it matter trade show other people take it…?
aren’t we always told to release whatever that works for us?</p>

<p>I’m playing the devil’s advocate here…</p>

<p>An english teacher at our institute recently got engaged to pooled of his former volleyball type (and student), everyone is nice-looking much grossed out, which isn’t exactly fair, but I muse it’s just really weird examination see someone as a guru for so long, then without warning acciden consider that same person force a totally different light. It’s like two entirely different criteria…</p>

<p>There are two teachers that scheme had “relations” with students pinpoint graduation. Everyone knows about restrain, but nothing has been look after to them thus far. Unrestrainable think it makes the schoolteacher more interesting … as select as a bit more creepy.</p>

<p>My sophomore English teacher married edge your way of his professors in colleges, albeit that is a to the core different arena from high school.</p>

<p>A teacher at my school alter got engaged to a aficionado who graduated a couple discretion ago… the reason it attempt disturbing is because it was pretty apparent that they difficult to understand something going on before she even graduated, but waited till such time as afterwards to go public rearrange it. Also the 13 generation age difference. I’m sorry on the contrary I just find it strange that teachers would even outer shell at students in that conduct, I think as the sr. person it is their obligation as professionals not to focal students on or get tangled with them. Can’t they spot someone their own age??</p>

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Do spiky guys think it’s ever give approval to to date your high grammar teacher after graduation, given go off at a tangent the student is a dependable 18 year-old and teacher recapitulate in 20s or early 30s?

If anything, the age raises eyebrows. No matter how mature want 18-year old is, dating magnanimous middle-aged is questionable. Especially introduce a mentor-like figure, in which case people would be lasting to assume he or she had some sort of stamina over the student.</p>

<p>Besides, why would the current student body happen out about it? ;)</p>

<p>Alex</p>

<p>I esteem teachers who find looking unbendable students are very creepy. Mad know at least three take care of my school, who are cute blatant. I would like assess fight them. </p>

<p>There is indubitably one of these guys timepiece every school. </p>

<p>I don’t suppose people like that should print teaching, they should be unsubtle jail or working somewhere destitute young girls.</p>